How To Rim Someone
A skill everyone should know.
So you wanna know how to rim someone, wanna learn Butt munching. gain confidence in Biting the peach. Whatever you want to call it, I find it a staple for the adventurous and less-squeamish among us who love playing in the backyard.
Everyone I mean everyone in the world has a butt. This means, regardless of yours or their gender, they can receive a world-class rim job. I love getting my ass eaten and I love saving my rim jobs for the people I like the most, the sexy, special people I want to please. We hold so much shame about our bodies (I want to help change that) we all know that our butts some hate them other see it as that special place where only if you trust someone will get access to your hole. Believe me, being more open it will be an awesome and intense time so start a great bit of foreplay for other forms of anal sex.
So how do you get started?
TALK TALK TALK and then Some more talking!
As with all new things it best to get them out in the open, “Hey lover, I would love to try licking your bum hole” is as ticky as it needs to be, yes that won’t be the end of the conversation. But as I mentioned above not everyone is going to understand right off the hat, so let’s say you have explained it naughty dirty and you fancy spicing up your love life what next?
It’s a good idea for the recipient to clean their butt beforehand.
Washing the outside of your butt is imperative. Even if you and your partner are fine with your butt being more natural, washing the outside makes the whole experience better. There may be small traces of toilet paper on your butt that may make the experience less enjoyable, so at the very least, hop in the shower beforehand and do a once-over with soap unscented. Don’t over-clean or do it too vigorously go gentle and easy.
Try Some Lube, Yes, they make rimming lube.
If it’s your first time and you are still a little freaked out but want to try it, I recommend some Lube nice water-based lube since no one wants to slurp up a gob of silicone lube, If you have your eye on some exotic-flavoured lube — cherry cola or pineapple — it’s fine to use on the ass as long as it’s water-based.
Water-based lubes are usually made with synthetic glycerin or are glycerin-free. Synthetic glycerin has a sweeter taste but has been associated with yeast infections in women and may not be totally nontoxic for human consumption, so I recommend going with a glycerin-free, organic, water-based lube.
Rimming is about more than tongue. Vary it up.
Aggressive rimmers will go straight for the hole and just lick continuously in the same motion over and over, gradually pushing the tongue deeper and deeper in. While this can feel good, it gets boring after a while and can actually start to wear on the hole. Saliva dries out your skin, and the hole is the last place you want to dry out, especially if rimming is foreplay for sex.
Divide your tongue duty between hole and the hypersensitive area around it. Make designs and patterns. Tickle the hole with just the tip of your tongue, then thrust your tongue in as deep as it can go. Alternate between the wider, flat part of your tongue and the narrower, probing tip. Do quick, light licks between deep, strong, drawn-out ones.
Blowing and breath are just as important as your tongue.
Don’t underestimate the effect of breath on the skin. If you’ve ever spooned someone in bed, you know how someone’s breath can feel on your neck, that tickle, comfort, arousal. Breath is vital to a good rim job. Make an O with your lips and blow away and watch your partner moan.
Lastly, before you get into your Rimming life is don’t be an endless rimmer.
The better you get, the longer you can do it, there’s still a limit. No matter how good you are, your saliva will dry out skin, and rimming will cease to be enjoyable at some point. I and everyone I know enjoys rimming as foreplay, as a warm-up to more sex, more ass play, toys, and so on.
Read their body language and learn when to cut yourself off.