Relationship Betrayals Not Involving Cheating

Ok yes we all know that cheating is really bad, and mostly one of those times in a relationship that can never really be repaired. But relationships don’t break down only when one person sticks their genitals in the general direction of a person who’s not their partner. All kinds of things can cause the end.

Some of my relationships have had those final nails in the coffin for possessiveness, jealousy, a lack of trust, differences in opinion, wanting different things from life – these all come into play, causing arguments and a return to that lonely singledom. These things are very often not just about one person being in the wrong, an old wise man (the ex wifes dad) told me that issues are not one person’s fault more a 50/50 of both parties. So with these feelings and personal issues they’re open to interpretation.

But with that said there are some petty things, that could start the above.

Watching a show or film that you were supposed to be watching together

So I am a big Netflix binge watcher and I want to find out what happens in Orange Is The New Black and watch the whole thing in one night 🙂 I have friends who have a very big issue with partners watching ahead.

If this is you? Then you may win back some points by rewatching the episodes with loved ones and not making a fuss, and come on it’s mostly always better the 2nd time. Think about this people communicate, talk and work on your relationship.

Using the last of the shower gel

Ok this is one of those that can start a big fight for some, if you can see it’s trickling down to the last dregs, this is a simple on to fix! Buy a new bottle before it runs out.

Telling someone else gossip before you tell your partner

Now this is about the gossip this is that it’s never going to be as hot when you share it a second time around. You won’t adequately build up the drama. The timing will be off. Again TALK…

Finishing off the last snack in the cupboards

Like above with the shower gel I know I didn’t inform you that I was planning to eat an entire tube of Pringles after a shit day of work, but you are dating. Come on is it worth fighting and ending your relationship?

Continuing to like someone your partner hates

Even if they can’t explain WHY they hate them, the crap saying but true “a couple that hates together, stays together.”

Refusing to like or retweet your partner’s hilarious pic

Now I have fallen foul of my partners saying well you liked theres but not mine, why? There are loads of reasons and if you word this a little differently lets look at this way, you weren’t online at the second they posted and didnt see.

OK the big one!! Not changing the toilet roll after you’ve finished it off

Simple put a new toilet roll on if you finish it 🙂