WHY GEEKY DOM’S ARE THE BEST
1. INTELLIGENCE. Give me a smart Dom any day over the Domly Lord Macho Man. The smart guy knows He doesn’t know it all and spends an inordinate amount of time continually learning to...
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The Psychological roots of Kinky sex [youonlywetter]
This is a follow-on article to my article on the Psychological Roots of Intimate Sex. In this article, I explore the origins of “kinky” or “perverted” sex. The exact form or desire for “kinky”...
12 Rules for the Modern Lady
Here is something that just popped into my head as a response to something that I felt reflexively uncomfortable for. Yes I know I’m a guy…so take this as a gender-bending exercise in getting...
It’s My Pleasure To Serve
It’s my pleasure to serve. In mundane, everyday things – Fixing your coffee. Getting up to fetch something You could easily get for yourself, And finding joy in doing so. It’s my pleasure to...
Dear Sal An Erotic Story from Aphrodisia Magazine
Dear Sal, I trust you’re well and had a good flight back. It was really wonderful to see you guys again; thanks, infinitely, for the book. I’m already 100 pages in and it’s as...
The Surprise Part 2 an Erotic Story
The Surprise (Part 2) To read Part 1, You can’t really believe your ears as footsteps flow into the room. You try desperately to count them but there’s no way of telling – two...
The Surprise (Part 1)
You’re back in town, and we’ve arranged to meet in that bar we had drinks in a while back. When you arrive I’m at the bar; we greet each other casually and I give...
Reminder to myself
She chose me. I am lucky enough to have something spectacular. An all in one. What’s an all in one? A relationship that ministers to every facet of my soul. Something I have wanted...
Top 10 Signs You Are Too Old For BDSM
10. Sensory deprivation is when your Dom hides your hearing aid batteries 9. Your nipple clamps have training wheels 8. Edge play is standing by the microwave with your pacemaker 7. When you tell...
An Open Letter to the Young Fetishist
Hey, Friend. I hear we have something in common. Maybe your number one turn on is flip flops. Or roller coasters. Or sneezing. Or stepping on tomatoes. Whatever it is, your sexuality is rooted...
Hair brained
This mornings post on Amanda Palmer got me thinking about hairy women (I think about a lot of things…) Ever wonder WHY women shave their armpits and legs? I did and Googled the question....