Why not try a bit of Anal fingering (its great)
It doesn’t have to just be your dick or some toys why not start with your finger and try a bit of Anal fingering its the ideal starting point to amp up your fun without needing too much preparation
Category: BDSM
Ten Secrets about Doms by Emma_L
Emma a Fetlife user breaks the Domly code of silence and spills the beans about ten secrets of a Dom the 32 year old sub said it just HAD to be SAID!
I am not collared. By FuckD0ll
I was scanning Fetlife and saw a friend of mine FuckD0ll had written this great take on being collared, she tells how she feels it should be and deserves a huge high five for standing for what she thinks
So what is Non-sexual BDSM Play?
If somebody said to you that they only wanted to have non-sexual play, how would you interpret this? What do you recon they mean ?? BDSM but not sex?
The Three Different Types of Dominant’s
Ok so this is where we make a few waves and have people complain to us that there are more than three types of Dominant’s
The Different Levels of Dominance
In the Dom/sub lifestyle you will find there are as many definitions for “Dominant” and “Master” as there are people to talk with we break them down for you
How can we tell the difference between BDSM and abuse?
Telling the difference between BDSM and Abuse is important, so how can we tell the difference between BDSM and abuse when to the outside it looks a little like the same? The short answer is CONSENT
Erotic asphyxiation What You Need To Know About
More porn scenes feature some light Erotic asphyxiation Why? Probably because we’re so desensitized that seeing sex without any choking won’t get us off
The Shy Girl’s Guide to Public Bottoming
Shy Girl Tip’s by Ginger as she gives a Guide to Public Bottoming, as Every once in a while, someone I trust needs a bottom for a demo or class.
The Safe Word Basics 101
Starting out in BDSM you will find out everyone has a different tolerance for pain to communicate these limits people commonly use “Safe words”
Female Domination: Top Ten things to Do
This post is specifically for the ladies out there that want to learn and experiment with female domination and how to deal with male submission.
Twelve traits of a true dom
This great post was found on written by DominantMan78 from fetlife. 1. He declines being called Sir, Master, Dom or any other grandiose title from the start. Until a relationship has been agreed he knows...