I want a Daddy!
I have been asked several times what a Daddy Dom is. First, I want everyone to know it has NOTHING to do with incest, and it isn’t ageplay or any fetish to do with children. I can only say what it means to me; others may and probably will have a different impression.
In my view, a Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive’s best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn’t mean that he gives into there every whim. There can be a huge difference between desires and real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for them if need be. And yes, at times he does punish.
This usually hurts him just as much if not more than them, but he will always do what’s best for them. He helps set and reach goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help them improve themselves to be the best they can be, not for HIM but for them! He’s not just looking to make a better submissive, but a better person in general. He becomes many things in the life of his little, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND… a lover! He offers what they need most of all, unconditional love and acceptance.
He is consistent in his actions so that his little knows what to expect from him. Knowing they can depend on him! He wants nothing more than to pull them close and protect them from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can’t! SO … it is up to him to prepare them for whatever life may throw there way and be there to comfort when things go wrong. Knowing they will run to him when overwhelmed or frightened.
The Daddy Dom will listen to all fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly they may sound, they are real and he will help them confront them. He slays dragons, and is a true “Knight in Shining Armor”. The Daddy Dom hears all the dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because they are bold enough and loves him enough to open up so totally to him.
He kisses on the face and holds close letting them know they are loved no matter what. They are His little one, and he loves them unconditionally. There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see them succeed, to watch as they grow as a person. He revels in their daily accomplishments almost as much as they do. He will cuddle them and show them the tenderness they crave when and needs, when his little feels unsure of themself he will whisper encouraging words to them. When they feel ugly he will reassure them of how beautiful they are to him … when they are scared he will be the safety net.
They are his pride and joy … his main comfort in life … his reason for living. His pride in them, shows in the tender loving way he cares. Even though they are just a partner, they are his little one and he is there Daddy! Just remember, he may be a Daddy, but he is still a Dom!”