Why The Missionary Position Rules for Dom’s

So the Missionary position gets a lot of flack for being boring. There are racist and misogynistic overtones to its existence (which my reading shows to not be true).

The French call it the “classical style” and a classic it is.

I have seen that look in a woman’s eyes when I pushed her to her back. Like oh, damn not this shit. And that tells me that the men they’ve been with felt the same about it. It was just a position to rotate through instead of fucking owning it.

Missionary is the position where I have the most power.

I don’t mean force! Because any of the rear entry styles allow you to pound the shit out of a pussy. But she can push back and wiggle away. Even with a handful of hair, she can wriggle her hips away. And unless I push her into a prostrate position from behind, my full body weight isn’t pushing down on her.

I like choking. Like way, too much and I can choke from behind or with her on top. But is it really choking if you can’t see the delightful looks of fear and acceptance of control? Like everything else I’m going to talk about here – it can be done in multiple positions but missionary is where it works best in my opinion.

I also like eye contact.

The eyes tell so much. Surprise, fear, anger, excitement, etc. You can’t see those things unless you can see her eyes and face. Part of being Dominant and good at it is reading your submissive and making adjustments to elevate the experience. Talking dirty is great when you are shouting it at the back of her head but it’s fucking fantastic when you are growling it low while looking into her eyes.

It’s also awkward as hell trying to kiss in the other positions. And though I enjoy pleasing a woman, that’s for me because kissing along with dirty talk never fails to push me over the edge.

I can hold her hands down and use my body weight to keep her contained. Her tits are completely exposed for hitting along with the inner thigh. All the fun parts are there for biting and beating and admiring and enjoying!