How to be a Kick Ass Rimming master
So I have done a couple of posts on ‘Rimming’ the act of using your mouth and tongue to pleasurably stimulate the outside rim of your partner’s arsehole. Now in a lot of folks’ heads, it’s a practice primarily associated with gay men as with other types of bum-based fun, rimming is something an increasing number of straight gents – and women – are now beginning to discover the appeal of.
Over the last 12 months in the shop, sales of butt plugs have risen 73%, while the number of prostate toys sold has increased by 59% – figures that are certainly in part due to heterosexuals becoming more open to the idea of anal play, including oral stimulation.
In the past, any sort of anal stimulation has been viewed as taboo for heterosexuals, but this perception has changed – more people are recognising the intense pleasure anal play offers and have fewer hang-ups about experimenting with it,
But if you’ve never attempted rimming before, how do you begin? And how do you succeed in being an open-minded, up-for-at-least-trying-it lover without getting freaked out by the idea of putting your face in the poo place?
Cleaning the chute
It goes without saying that you want someone’s bum to be as clean as a whistle before you put your lips anywhere near it. Thorough washing before rimming reduces the risk that germs will be spread from bum to tongue, limits unpleasant smells and tastes for the giver, and helps the receiver to relax in the knowledge that they don’t have a collection of dangleberries jangling around their bottom. Your lover will feel less cagey and self-conscious about you being so close to their butt if they know it’s daisy-fresh. so jump in the shower or bath together and make lathering up part of the foreplay, if you like.
Shaven haven
‘If you’re dating a hairy guy, you might want to diplomatically ask him to do a little pre-rimming manscaping, and carefully trim or shave the fur around his arsehole, Culling those follicles stops the giver ending up with a mouthful of posterior pubes, and feeling like they’re French kissing Cousin It’s bathroom plughole. You can make this fun by shaving each other, so the process becomes part of your play, This helps to familiarise you both with that part of each other’s anatomy, and builds anticipation for what’s to come.
Give it a rub
After everything has been rinsed and razored or waxed, lay your lover down on their stomach, and begin to massage their bum cheeks. After a while, start gently pulling the buttocks apart so the anus is exposed and your fingers are gradually getting closer to it, Whether a man admits it or not, this will make him want you to touch his bunghole. A blindfold can be a useful accessory for particularly shy guys: Not being able to see and be seen helps people slip into their own worlds and relax – plus sensations of touch and sound are enhanced.
Get in the right pose
Once you’re ready to get cracking on licking that bumcrack, make sure the recipient is in a position that gives you easy access to their anus while still being comfy for them you can try getting your partner to kneel on the sofa, resting their elbows against the back of it, and arching their sexy butt out. You kneel on the floor, enjoying the awesome view as well as being able to reach all the vital hotspots.
Work around the hole
The anus is not a bullseye that you should aim your tongue at straight away. Begin by licking, kissing, stroking and nibbling around the area, then move on to tiny, light licks there with the very tip of your tongue, building up the intensity as you slowly stimulate more of the nerve endings the botty is rich in. Take time to lick all the little ridges around the anus in circular motions, before beginning to lap at the hole itself, Focus on stimulating the outer skin and the hard ring of muscle.
So there you go. If you thought the only way you’d ever be poking around anyone’s rim was when aiming the nozzle of your Toilet Duck, tonight, you and your partner could now be putting the ‘us’ in ‘anus’. Grin while you’re rimming.
