10 Basic Caning Tips
1. Practice, practice, practice. Pillows make great practice dummies – they leave behind one to two strokes worth of lines to show you if you’re getting a good clean stroke, and a good vertical...
You Only Wetter Learn Share Grow
Crazy Danish sign about having public sex in a park. It’s a different world!
Sex is allowed in the park. But show some respect! Many children institutions/child care centers use the park. Therefore, do not have: -Sex on the playground and visible places between 9am to 4pm -Loud sex...
Marijuana and its effect on sex Part 1
I used to be a midnight toker, these days I’m most likely to be asleep by midnight and I’m more likely to roast a joint than smoke one. That said when I did smoke...
“A House of Colours” The Intro
There exists in us all a requirement to be needed, to have purpose. We are haunted to be wanted and desired, physically, emotionally, sexually, even if just by one single other. “Are you ok...
10 Paddling Tips
1. Begin any paddling session with a bare hand (or softer toy) warm up. Unless you are playing with (or are yourself) a heavy masochist, the bottom will appreciate the warm up, and you’ll...
Welcome to Mistress Raven
A journey of self discovery over the last 5 years of my life has led me to who I am now, a confident feminine heel loving bisexual girl in a regular loving relationship with...
The Slave Girl Marcus’s Slave
Marcus and I had a very strained relationship. We had never really been friends, but our families were for a while until…Something happened, I’m not really sure what. Like so many family feuds the...
Missing you. The sharp end of poly
You come home. Tired, happy, worn out, processing so many different things. The house feels cold and empty, a stark contrast to the warm and relaxed space you left a while ago. You have...
My first time as a sub
Years spent as a loving, caring and careful mother and I had almost forgotten that I don’t break easily, I can take roughness and actually really enjoy it. I’d played it safe for so...
Dear Dominants. Please read this…..
Within this lifestyle there are unfortunately many dangers, there are people out there using the BDSM lifestyle as a way to abuse or use individuals under an umbrella of acceptance. Within each situation there...
The Big Mistakes When Giving Head
Teeth The number one blowjob mistake: letting your teeth hit his cock. We can’t stress this enough. Ask any guy and he’ll tell you again and again: nothing is worse than a blowjob that...
An open letter to anyone who is feeling unworthy… by SapphireRains
You may be feeling lost right now. Or worthless. Perhaps you don’t like what you see in the mirror, or maybe there’s something you wanted to have achieved by now which you didn’t. Maybe...