Do You Want To Try Pegging?

So trying to fit a square peg in a round hole is a bummer, but trying to fit a lubed-up dildo in a hungry butthole can be so much fun!

Welcome to Pegging!

Pegging is the act of a woman performing anal intercourse on a man with the help of a strap-on dildo, but that said a woman can also peg another woman. We first heard the name Pegging 16 years ago when sex columnist Dan Savage ran a contest back in 2001 asking readers to vote on a name for the act. (The losing names were “bobbing” and “punting.”) There are lots of stereotypes and myths about pegging, the most common being if you like it, you must be gay. You can just really love anal pleasure, and it won’t change your sexual orientation. Prostate stimulation, which is what pegging accomplishes in men, is a gateway to amazing orgasms for dudes.

So How Do You Do It:

First off once both people decide they are game, the first step is shopping for the right toy. You want to find a harness and strap-on that are comfortable for the cock to wear, and of course comfortable for the man being pegged. Its always nice if he picks the dick. The woman obviously won’t have any sensation in the dildo itself, so it’s important for the partner who’s being penetrated to take the lead and control the pace.

Communication and patience are key, as is lots of lube. Seriously, use lots.

There are as many fun pegging positions as there are colours of the rainbow:-

Doggy style

This is obviously an easy position to peg in, but feel free to mix it up. This a good beginner position because you have pretty easy access to … where you need to be. If you’re shorter than him, put on some sexy heels, have him bend at the waist and slowly penetrate him from behind. He can steady himself by putting his hands on his thighs, but if the combination of first-time jitters and the whole must-engage-thighs-of-steel aspect is too much for him, he can also brace himself on the edge of the bed. He’ll perk up even further when you do a reach-around and start stroking his penis.

Sat in a chair

Sit in a low chair and have him straddle you, slowly letting the dildo enter his butt as he sits down. If he’s hesitant about letting you completely take charge, this is another good position to try because he can control how much he’s willing to take on, backdoor-wise. It’s also super conducive to gazing into each other’s eyes and sharing deep kisses. Plus, you’re in the perfect spot to stroke his penis and watch as he realizes that he’s found the best seat in the house.

Anal Shower Fun

The shower offers general sexy, soapy slipperiness, plus the advantage of easy clean-up afterward. The keys to a successful wet peg are making sure everyone is holding onto something sturdy, remembering that water is not lube (You still need to use lube!!!), and being 8 billion percent certain that all your equipment is safe for water use. Electrocution via lady-boner is a real buzzkill.

Whatever position you land on, flipping the script on traditional gender roles can be a fun way to spice it up.

Pegging is about more than just toys

It involves psychological arousal, as well as physical. It’s really exciting for women to experience this new kind of sex and to be the penetrator. Likewise, it’s exciting for men to experience a whole new kind of pleasure of being penetrated, which can change the sexual game for men.