What is Cock Edging?
I saw a survey recently where up to 40% of those responding had no idea what cock edging was, and this was somewhat of a surprise to me. Chances are a lot of those guys have partially enjoyed this sport themselves at some time and don’t even know it.
Basically, Cock Edging can perhaps be most appropriately described by listening to “Relax” by Frankie Goes To Hollywood. No, I’m not kidding. This song is basically about cock edging and holding yourself back from cumming, building up the pleasure.
Edging is the act of keeping yourself from shooting off, reaching the limit as you’re about to shoot, and stopping yourself. Then returning to the fun when you’ve calmed down. Repeat the process over and over making your session last.
This activity is enjoyed primarily during masturbation, but it can be an excellent method of pleasing a partner too.
Why are guys into Cock Edging?
As mentioned, Cock Edging might be something you do on your own, with a wank partner, or during full preventative sex.
When wanking alone (or with a friend) guys might do this to make the session last longer, but the predominant reason is that it greatly increases both the pleasure of the climax and often the force and amount of your ejaculation too.
Dedicated practitioners of Cock Edging can masturbate for hours, taking themselves right to the edge and enjoying prolonged orgasm-like sensations without ejaculating. They then take a short break (drink some water!) and then start again. The time taken to reach that point of extreme pleasure becomes shorter and shorter during a session, with many men taking themselves to the edge of cumming without even touching their cock.
The need to ejaculate can become so intense that even visual stimulation or thoughts can cause the eventual ejaculation. Most men reach a point in such an edging session where their cock becomes so sensitive that even a slight tickle of the helmet or balls can immediately result in a spasm leading to full release.
When having sex men use this method to prevent premature ejaculation, or to make the session last a lot longer. These men learn to read the warning signs of imminent climax and pull out, often putting pressure on the perineum (taint) behind the balls to prevent a full climax. Once they’ve calmed down a little sex can resume. This can go on for some time, often leading to a return to foreplay because penetration causes too much sensation.
The climax from a Cock Edging session can be incredibly intense depending on the man, but most men can expect to experience at least double the pleasure and double the amount of ejaculation from a good edging session.
How to Edge
We’ll focus on wanking for this guide, you should learn how to read your body on your own terms before letting loose using this method on a partner. Of course, men who share wanking together can enjoy this a lot straight away.
Prepare
You need a good lubricant, time to yourself, perhaps some porn, and a towel. Make sure you’re not going to be disturbed during this. Nothing is more of a turn off than having someone knock on your door mid-wank. I would also recommend drinking two pints of water at least an hour before you begin. Using a wanking toy and a cock ring is also beneficial.
Will power
Wank as you normally would, but when you feel the very first wave of pleasure indicating that you’re close, stop. Let go of your dick and halt all action. You will not understand how hard this can be for a lot of men. We are so focused on that pleasure sometimes that we are willing to throw away double the pleasure because we just want to cum. The secret is building your stamina and knowing what is possible if you just STOP. Trust me on this, even though everything inside you will want you to keep going it will be TOTALLY WORTH IT if you dedicate yourself and can learn to say no.
Starting again
Tentatively start again perhaps five or ten minutes later. The time it takes you to reach that point of the first signs of climax will have reduced. While you might normally wank for fifteen minutes before feeling that sensation, this time you’ll probably feel it within five or ten. Take it slow, because as the pleasure and the need to cum increases this time and the stimulation it takes to get there will be greatly reduced. You don’t want to catch yourself off-guard and finish early.
More will power
As mentioned, the pleasure experienced will grow, and the stimulation needed to get there will decrease. Eventually, if you’re doing this right, you should reach the point where even grazing your helmet with a finger makes you feel like you’re going to shoot off in all directions. This is how it should be, and this is the act of edging. It might take you only two stop-start wanks to get there, or it might take you ten, either way it is absolutely worth it.
Repeat
The idea is that you repeat this process for as long as you possibly can, repeating the wank-stop routine over and over. If you are successful, you will eventually reach a point where even THINKING of cumming will plausibly have you ejaculating. Be warned again, the resulting climax from an edging session like this can literally have you experiencing full-body spasms and the kind of ejaculation you have never had before. This is why you need a towel. All men are different when it comes to the amount of cum they shoot, but most men are capable of producing a lot more than they release in a simple wank or fuck. The edging method is known to maximize the cum load you shoot, and the power at which you shoot it. If you normally shoot a lot of semen, be prepared for the possibility that you might double the amount using this process.
In conclusion
Cock Edging is great fun, the pleasure experienced from a good session is remarkable for a lot of men. While it might not be practical to edge for every wank or every session with a partner, the results experienced from the process speak for themselves and you will find yourself enjoying this activity more often. Once you have enjoyed the kind of full climax this method produces you will want to enjoy it a lot more and explore all variations, such as including prostate massage with a toy, or using different lubricants for changes in sensation.
