The Ménage a Trois

Ok so from having my first MMF nicely arranged by Kat with her “male friend” in November i thought share my some useful words on the whole thing & after talking with my friends i often get asked how do i get my wife, Girlfriend etc to have one. Heres some useful Hints and tips on how to get a threesome of your own and keep your relationship as solid as a rock.

When considering a threesome a big thing is consen you shouldn’t never try to force, coerce, bribe, guilt your partner into having a threesome. Speak honesty and communicate tell them why you feel that way and ask and make sure that this is something your partner really wants to do and if you’ve got consent all around once this is a given ‘Thumbs UP’ 🙂

Now the next question is normally “Where can I find someone to do this with?” my wife and i have found FetLife to be a great place full of open minded people.

There are plenty of options you can explore to find a third.

• Consider a close friend who both and your partner know! The benefit is that you already have a pre-existing relationship.
• A club is a great place to meet someone too in Brighton where we are based we have a nudist health spa with play rooms
• Not feel like a club how about a play party many open-minded couples will be in attendance and you should be able to find some prospects there, if not some great friends.
• If looking in your friend pool isn’t an option, try some personal sites. Make sure you exercise caution when trying to find someone online.

If you do find someone Online you really need to talk to them and agree to meet before you ask them to join you in the bedroom.

So now have consent and a third, what is the next step? Now is the time to discuss the rules. This is a very important step in negotiating a threesome. The conversation should include what behavior is ok and what is not. For instance, is on the mouth

kissing ok with your third? Is that something that is going to upset your partner. Discuss different acts and ‘what if’ scenarios and get agreement all around before embarking on your sexual adventure.

So now your threesome checklist is complete; consent, a third, and the rules! Now the play can commence! There are many different configurations you can be in when having a threesome, but breaking the ice can be the toughest. I think one of the easiest ways to break the ice is with a triple kiss. It is something light and can let you gauge each partners willingness and from there, you can ease up or go in for more. And all of this advice can go for all sorts of configurations whether it is FMF, MFM, MMM, FFF, foursome, or moresome.

Don’t be afraid to try different things; you won’t be a pro at first. Your body is a sexual playground, so never leave your hands or mouths idle. Have fun playing and when it comes to sex and threesomes, everything is OK here.