What kind of porn do women want to watch?
I found a discussion on www.womenshealth.com about the types of porn women watch and want to watch. I’m not convinced this is even the tip of the iceberg though. Are there any women out there directing porn for women? I’m not just talking about lesbian porn but female direction offering women a different visual experience to the one that seems currently offered to men.
The comments were as follows but if love to open up a wider discussion
What Kinds of Porn do Women Enjoy Alone?
If you’ve been to any porn site you know that they’re generally divided up into categories (amateur, blowjob, lesbian, etc.). What categories do you generally click to to find something that you’ll enjoy watching by yourself?
Lil Bird said:
10-31-2010 09:46 PM
For me, its always either amateur or lesbian. I like to watch lesbian porn because of the oral sex. I am not a lesbian though. Is this weird? haha.
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sourpuss said:
11-01-2010 07:45 AM
Not really. You’re viewing something you enjoy to do yourself. (receive oral) Besides, woman are nicer to look at than some hairy old man.
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WildChild said:
11-01-2010 08:57 AM
Being endlessly curious, I’ve looked at all kinds. Most of it just doesn’t do much for me. Looking at it is a more academic activity rather than one of titilation.
Visually it’s generally very poor, emotionally it’s just not there, and the lack of creativity is astounding. Most porn is fairly brutish stuff and not at all what real people who want a really good sexual relationship or even a good one night encounter should follow.
Really, just hearing one certain man’s voice, the slightest brush of his hand, just being in the same space with him – has done more to turn me on than hours of any kind of porn could. Too bad he fell into and could never move back beyond the porn sex mentality. We might of had something most people only dream of – actually we did, until he chose ‘porn’ type sex over real connection and love making.
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ItsASecret said:
11-01-2010 09:00 AM
I stopped watching porn awhile ago after I realized I cannot actually find anything I like. I mean the point of porn is so focused on just looking at the airbrushed girl…I do not like girls like that in any way shape or form, and I think the vagina is disgusting-even airbrushed ones so watching a vag get spread full screen was like this is not arousing go away. Then I tried amateur which I must admit I do not mind as long as it does not look like the girl is trying to make it seem like she is a professional porn actress. The normal couple in their room with the camera on a desk or something…totally okay so I will watch those when I am alone if I can find a clip with is actual amateurs. Nowadays even typing ‘amateur’ on a porn site gets you to dolled up airbrush “princess Melody amateur gang banged on roof top!”-not amateur or “amateur Christine legs spread cumming alone in bathroom” -not amateur when she yet again looks like she spent 5 hours in makeup. Things airbrushed and edited for countless hours just makes it boring to me, too predictable…nothing I can relate to so I just ignore it.
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Rediscovered said:
11-01-2010 09:53 AM
My favorite “porn” is the movie my lover and I made of ourselves making love…gets me every time, lol.
Regular porn does nothing for me because it’s the opposite of how we (my lover and I) make love. Hard and pounding and brutal as opposed to soft and loving and sometimes still. It hurts to watch it.
shweedart said:
11-01-2010 04:03 PM
Same as lil bird, I watch lesbian because the women are gorgeous and purely for the oral. It’s the men in porn that actually put me off…there should be castings for properly gorgeous men!!
And I just search for ‘massage’ more then the lesbian stuff. I hate physicall contact from anyone but my bf…even hugs sometimes make me uncomfortable when I’m greeting someone! It feels so exclusive that when he does touch me its fantastic…So watching someone get a hot steamy massage just pushes my buttons. I just imagine its him and me
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Beautiful Disaster said:
11-01-2010 05:26 PM
I’m sort of like WC in that I look at a little bit of everything just for education. LOL. But, I really enjoy the “home videos” of sex, and masturbation. I particularly enjoy watching men wank. I don’t know why but it really gets me going. I dislike the classic “porn” style videos: starts off with a BJ, then some mechanical sex and some repetitive high pitched whiny moaning, with periodic pauses for more BJ time, then more sex, then pulling out to cum all over the womans face and in her mouth. I’m seriously so bored by that nonsense I could scream. Plus, I dislike the fact that the women all have these tiny little perfect vaginas. I have fairly large inner labia, which I’ve been self conscious about my entire life (though no one has ever complained. ) and these girls don’t make that insecurity any better.
But yeah, I guess I enjoy the men wanking home videos cause it’s kind of like I’m spying on them. Maybe I’m a bit of an exhibitionist. And I like to see the way men handle themselves.
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LanaBear said:
11-01-2010 05:36 PM
LOL – BD…. I feel like I could have written that post word for word.
Beautiful Disaster said:
11-01-2010 05:40 PM
LOL – BD…. I feel like I could have written that post word for word.
Ahh….a fellow exhibitionist. LOL. We are too much alike!!!
that’s all that was contained in the thread but if anyone knows of any female orientated sites or directors out there let us know! Thanks
