Does BDSM Desensitize You?

Madison Young as a pony girl on the set of Rough Sex 2

Madison Young as a pony girl on the set of Rough Sex 2

So today i have been reading puckerup.com and saw this great blog (http://puckerup.com/2013/05/24/ask-tristan-does-bdsm-desensitize-you/)

Tristan asks Can it be hard to enjoy “vanilla” sex once you’ve escalated [to BDSM]? I’ve heard porn indulgence can desensitize people until they keep needing to escalate–is this the case with BDSM?

He turns to his friend and colleague Felice Shays, a sex and BDSM educator, to answer see the full post for details but her summary says it all:-

  • Keep open and curious—and don’t let fear run your sex, or your life, for that matter.
  • You are allowed to experiment explore and discover what you like.
  • ADD to your sexual vocabulary, don’t limit it.
  • Just think of the stories you will tell with all that new language.
  • It’s worth repeating: Worry less and EXPLORE more.

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Jon the nudist

Jon the nudist

Well, my name is Jon the Owner of You Only Wetter a 37-year-old, Poly practicing, Dom with two great kids. I am a happy busy internet geek with a love of all things Google and I love spending time sitting on the sofa watching the latest Dr. Who, Mythbusters or a movie. I am a nudist mostly at home but do like to go down to the beach and bare all or go for a little walk around some hidden woodland really would like to do the whole nudist holiday :)

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Does BDSM Desensitize You?

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