Does BDSM Desensitize You?
So today i have been reading puckerup.com and saw this great blog (http://puckerup.com/2013/05/24/ask-tristan-does-bdsm-desensitize-you/)
Tristan asks Can it be hard to enjoy “vanilla” sex once you’ve escalated [to BDSM]? I’ve heard porn indulgence can desensitize people until they keep needing to escalate–is this the case with BDSM?
He turns to his friend and colleague Felice Shays, a sex and BDSM educator, to answer see the full post for details but her summary says it all:-
- Keep open and curious—and don’t let fear run your sex, or your life, for that matter.
- You are allowed to experiment explore and discover what you like.
- ADD to your sexual vocabulary, don’t limit it.
- Just think of the stories you will tell with all that new language.
- It’s worth repeating: Worry less and EXPLORE more.
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